Wednesday, April 30, 2025

Will it never end

 We both think he is possessed. The BIL. Yes we believe possession is real and he has a demon in him. 

The In-laws have been talking to him a bit and somehow were allowed to go to a game one of the kids were playing. He then agreed to bring the kids by so the kids could all get their birthday presents and see their grandparents. All was going well until he started a tariff rant with my FIL. Which then evolved into "How can you be ok with a felon for the President?" and then "Oh well you are ok with having a felon for a Grandson" Which evolved into him screaming and yelling and making the kids cry and telling his little kids who did not know about M, 6 and 10, about M. 

The next morning he calls and apologizes.  

This is not normal. 

We are done. I will continue to pray for him and his kids, but I have no desire to ever see him or his wife again. I feel bad for the kids. They are watching this insanity and are stuck in the middle. I will miss the kids. 

No more.

Sunday, April 13, 2025

And it continues

 I woke up this morning to a massive migraine and M telling me that Grandma (My MIL) called was trying to get ahold of us and we were not answering our phones. It was 7am. 

I go wake up hubby and he calls his mother. The BIL had sent a text to both of them at 4 am threatening to kill himself. Because of all of this. This being the drama that he continues to create. Hubby tries to call him after talking to his mother and of course does not get an answer. After leaving a message he gets a text from his brother saying not to panic that this was just his normal morning ritual. WTF! 

I climb back into bed while hubby calls his mother back and try to pass out. I dozed briefly and wake to hear her reading the appeal again and asking questions again and again and again. We have been through this so many times now it is nauseating. (Not that the migraine helped that) It is after 9am when he finally tells her he is done and hangs up. 

Hubby texts his brother back apologizing again, for the umpteenth time, and says he is available for a phone call if he ever wants to talk. 

A short time ago hubby receives a text from his brother blaming him for not telling him sooner about their parents divorce 40 years ago, he was 6, and saying that their grandmother deserved to know that M was a pedophile while she was dying of cancer in a home during Covid. 

He has lost his mind.