That is the only word I can come up with. The woman is insane. She ordered the trial transcript. She is upset that we blocked her from our Facebook business page since we did not want her to bad mouth us to the public.
I can't believe this is still happening. She is such a nasty person.
My heart is broken
Yesterday I was ready to explode. I don't think I have ever been so angry or so full of hate as I was yesterday.
M called on his way home from work. He was called by the county sheriff and told that he needed to come in so they could set up a profile with them.
Bit of a back story, we live 20 min from another state and he works in that other state. He had called the county sheriff when he got the job to find out if he needed to register with that state and how to go about doing that, since he is registered in our home state. They told him since he was already registered in our home state he did not need to register there.
Fast forward to yesterday. He gets to the office and they don't have time to see him but they mention that there had been an anonymous tip and they needed to do a profile on him so to come back Monday.
An anonymous tip. Like we don't know who that was. The malicious C that is my SIL.
I started a study in my Bible app last week on forgiveness. I actually missed yesterday and I am glad because it made today, which was supposed to be yesterday, very fitting and I was able to receive it in the way that I should have.
"Father forgive them for they know not what they do"
That was Jesus asking God, our Father to forgive those who were murdering him. If He can do it, surely I can. No it is not easy! Far from it. But it is worth it for the feeling that I have today.
"Jesus teaches us that even in moments of great pain, it is important to seek forgiveness for those who have hurt us. This request helps keep us from becoming trapped in bitterness and blame, granting us the freedom to move forward." ICF Munchen "Forgiveness and Reconciliation"
Forgiveness is so incredibly important to our well being and mental state.
"Be Still and Know"
Our Christmas will be a lot smaller this year. I enjoyed having a large family while I had it, but I am fine with a small family, it's what I grew up with.
Our SIL has gone and called the rest of the family to tell them about M. They knew about him but she found his appeal papers and they go into detail without context or explanation. So we will be staying home this year.
She also found out where he works. His company accepts him. They did a background check and he actually told them before they hired him. But she swears he works too close to where they live and that M is somehow stalking their daughter. He does not even know where they live! If she causes him to lose his job, WE will go nuclear. I don't know if she knows about the girlfriend but I suspect if she does we can expect her to try to ruin that.
There is a demon sitting on that woman. What kind of person does this?
The SIL and BIL strike again.
The same SIL and BIL who accepted M at the beginning of November have decided our family and Hubby's parents are in the wrong and we will not see them for Christmas. Or ever.
Long story short, apparently the wrong side won the election and because we voted for the wrong side they were going to cut us all off. They called my in-laws and told them not to expect them for Thanksgiving and that they would not see them for Christmas because my FIL got into it with my BIL at one of the kids basketball games. A week later my BIL apologized and the in laws were back to going to the kids games and events. Well, my SIL did not like that. She decided to go nuclear. She texted my MIL a nasty message saying that she had seen M on FB and then sent my MIL M's appeal paperwork that she had found online. Accusing my in-laws of lying to them and submitting their children to M. And that they (the in-laws) knew and that they should have told them. And that the in-laws were at fault and they would not be allowed to see the kids. It went on quite a bit and was very nasty.
She called Hubby in a bad way. Distraught and not knowing what to do.
My MIL has adult onset CF. She is not doing well right now. She is resistant to most antibiotics and needs to have them intravenously when it gets this bad. She told Hubby that there was no point to getting them anymore.
Hubby messaged his brother and wife yesterday to throw himself on the sword. Taking blame and trying to convince them that my in-laws had knew nothing. Which they did not. None of us did.
It has gotten nasty. Why would my SIL decide to go searching for M's case again? She is just crazed enough that this is her way of getting back at my in-laws. This is all she has. This is her silver bullet. We voted the wrong way.
We are taking defensive measures on our own. We have all blocked her and my BIL on FB and I have blocked them from our business page. I think she could get M kicked off FB. But if she goes after the business there will be a problem.
I don't know what else to do. We have already decided we are done with them. They will NOT destroy my family! I do hope they forgive my in-laws.
